With the help hotline Shenzhen girl

 With the girl in Shenzhen helpline:
girl help line: Since the opening, a full hour consultation by phone calls. teenage pregnancy an accident, how to handle the situation? current social boys and girls in sex education, how to start? these issues became the focus of the consultation hotline. Luohu District Woodcrest Hill Pine streets, deputy director of community cultural center of fertility, obstetrics and gynecology, director of Shenzhen Hospital Dishu Yi, sexual psychology, sexual health expert Li Shuqing, Zhang Lili carried out for the public to answer patient and meticulous.
girls public welfare assistance is a key   Reporter: Girls help care for designated hospitals (Shenzhen Pok Oi Hospital) can be provided to eligible girls what kind of help? position is what?
Di Shuyi: First of all, girls help care designated hospitals (Shenzhen Pok Oi Hospital) for the girls to flow surgery, to maximize the protection of girls from harm recipients; secondly also to minors and parents as sex counseling and psychological counseling, through a series of publicity in the community, so that the entire society attention to the protection of minors people; one of the most important thing is to educate boys and girls how to properly deal with adolescent sexual impulses, to remind them should go to hospital for regular flow of people. girls care assistance is a very important public good, and we regard it as their responsibility will make every effort to it.
to face an unwanted pregnancy to deal with
Reporter: unexpected teenage pregnancy, I how to do, how to quickly eliminate the psychological burden? parents how to reasonably resolve?
Li Shuqing: saying said, deviant behavior among sporadic, but there are quite a girl this confusedly, became some of the ill-intentioned, misconduct by the victim of character.
the one hand, to face real difficulties, need to address children's issues On the other hand will give them the psychological fear of psychological, therefore, many give up on themselves, since the stoop. out of the question we must face the problem, positive solution to this is a correct approach, it is necessary to seek their parents or with the help of friends and family, be honest, and strive to win their sympathy and support, asking them to choose the best program to discuss the most scientific method to solve the problem of children stomach. The second is to listen to parents more than the opinions and pointing pay more attention to find emotional sustenance from home, rather than dealing with a stranger. Third is to establish an emotional support system and draw strength, learn the lesson, to look ahead.
Reporter: daughter, the parents how to deal with unwanted pregnancies ?
ZhangLili: As a parent, regardless of the child's sexual misconduct was a spontaneous, violent or forced, as the side closest to the child, their influence is unquestionable. When children consider themselves under attack again not purified, the parents care for themselves to rebuild their lives back is the primary condition. First of all parents can get angry, emotional, but not blindly attack on this child, the child will feel this wrong there will be no way out, only the wrong one wrong in the end the. In fact, after care can only be an afterthought, love it more valuable advance. So, I appeal to parents to create some more warm for the child family, parents have more equal opportunities to communicate with their children. If the child did not grow up healthily, and that parents have to their own ignorance or indifference must bear the responsibility.
a self-learning knowledge Jie Du
Reporter: At present, sex education for young people, how to? < br> Di Shuyi: of course there are several general stages of development, from the nature of worship, of mystery, to sexual freedom, sexual freedom, especially in the current society is a rational, diversified sexual behavior, and respected personality. now sex education of minors, should abandon the traditional mode of education, and we also see that all aspects of the process of globalization that affect our consciousness. I think for the Chinese young people are the best way to learn the following several characteristics:
1. self self-learning, there is pressure from traditional culture, even in today's society, people are there in terms of pressure, the Chinese saying goes, This is the meaning, so the minors to learn in public is inappropriate sexual knowledge, but should be taken according to their own self-learning, like the network to this end provides a convenient, available online tutorials to learn;
2 . There Jie Du, and a minor in the study according to the law of the time will learn, not what ought to learn, but according to their needs, their parents and other social aspects of this regulation is critical.
16 years old eight months pregnant girls how to do?
Shenzhen residents call Mr. Liu: I have a neighbor girl 16 years old, had to work in the hotel, from small parents divorced, and not in the side, and once at a friend birthday party, by a After the man was drunk with wine, rape, the girl has not go back and talk with other people, they would not come to the hospital until the parents found the girl she was pregnant, and pregnant for at least 8 months old, her parents very angry, no matter now. the girl at a friend's help, to some hospital to consult, as time is too long, now only abortion, do not flow. but because of economic reasons, the girl did not do the costs of abortion, hope to get help.
reply: Girls help care for designated hospitals: Hospital of Shenzhen is the main purpose of the premise of full respect for girls under 16 years old unwanted pregnancies, more than 16 years of age due to unwanted sexual behavior (such as illegal violence) lead to accidents the implementation of poor pregnant girls free surgical termination of pregnancy to prevent some girls because of clandestine abortions, etc., causing life-long regret. But I must bring relevant evidence to prove that they meet the conditions of relief, as long as conditions are met, you can get help.
non-exceptional circumstances , unwanted teenage pregnancy, can be introduced through the phone or network related to the situation I needed help to the girls rescue the hospital medical staff care for the specified leave your name and contact information, make an appointment to receive cards of the time hospital patients by appointment to the specified Hospital patient guide, Shenzhen Hospital, second floor, place, registration card, can receive care.
where girls under 20 years of age to do painless?
Shenzhen Chen calls: I came to Shenzhen from the field , and one under the age of 20-year-old girl had a relationship, and she has been pregnant more than a month now, because she had miscarried once, may I ask where do painless safer?
reply: surgical abortion should Select the implementation of physician rigorous qualification and technology acceptance, assessment. such as the establishment of girls in Shenzhen Hospital assistance station. But to be reminded that, even if painless pain to a minimum, only remedy after contraceptive failure, should be advance the protection of women, cautious.
17-year-old pregnant daughter how to deal with?
Shenzhen residents call Ms. Yang: My daughter is 17 years old, and a relationship with a boy, and is now pregnant. I do not know how to deal with this matter, the children are very scared, I am afraid to leave the shadow of the child, but also worry that their child after the deterioration, resulting in a psychological fear of himself, did not even dare to let his daughter go out, afraid of her daughter ran away from home, so I let She stayed at home all day long, I do not know how to do?
Answer: This is not reimbursing the first to blame the child, parents should provide counseling to children with communication, respect her ideas, if necessary with children to communicate with a psychiatrist. Parents should give children to create a warm family environment, so that children feel happy. If you allow children staying at home, she will think it is quite depressed, and prone to cranky, so they should let their kids live a full point and where possible, parents should communicate with the boy, this thing resolved.
daughter with the opposite sex friends is how to do more?
Shenzhen residents DING call: My family has a daughter, 16 years old adolescent age, very interested in sexual knowledge, often ask me some questions, and go the opposite sex, and some more recent, I have often advised her friend should keep a distance with the opposite sex, but she will not listen to not only arguing with me. Comparison of adult and dressed up as a mother was how to correct guidance, how to educate?
reply: It is now thought a lot of immature kids on sensitive sexual issues, if the treatment was inappropriate, would cause a child rebellious, If the parents of the child is not only used to suppress criticism of the parents to respect children, should be clear to solve their psychological problems. The purpose of a child with the parents is the same as they pursue a happiness, so parents should side more with the child communication, and their children to avoid unnecessary conflicts occur, while the safety of children should be given free space, as the parents of a child to have a boyfriend to boot, so to learn more about some of the opposite sex would not be hurt, over time , the child will understand how to handle their own problems this.
girls fear the opposite sex is not normal?
Shenzhen people call Miss Xu: I am 20 years old, not married, can sometimes be easily excited, but also can easily lead to sex. often go to see things in terms that he would often masturbate. This behavior has three or four years, but was afraid and male contacts, compared to the opposite sex fear, fear of communicating with their families, what they are not psychologically abnormal, which has no effect on future fertility?
reply: unmarried young people now before masturbation, one hundred percent to the correct attitude to face. If you want to know exactly how the later has no effect on fertility, should go to hospital for an examination or consultation by indirect means. Miss Xu's emotions such as fear there is that lack of friends around, the lack of communication, to keep the problem to understand, open mind. In addition, to avoid frequent visit of sexual of things, enrich their own lives, to restrain myself, and slowly lift the bad behavior.
girl and her boyfriend rent cohabitation suit you?
Li, Shenzhen, students call: I am studying in Shenzhen, is a junior student, I near schools rent a house with her boyfriend live together, but both parents do not agree, tell me how to do? The situation of them exist around us, I feel no need to stop us.
reply: fashion do not some good, traditional is not necessarily bad. from their own point of view, the school is based society to learn, which should put time and effort to accumulate some knowledge, after living together will have sex, but you are now in the case, from the spirit and can not be a family financially, it will affect their learning, but also in the school to establish a relationship, may not be rewarded in the future, if not the result of relatively large impact on girls. stand in the perspective of parents, and parents should be more communication, more for the future sake of it.